Waiting

Last Thursday, my 8-year-old was waiting for a special package to arrive in the mail. She kept asking, “Is it here yet?” multiple times per day. Instead of immediately checking the tracking for her or minimizing her anticipation, I remembered our family’s commitment to the Life-Ready approach. I said, “I know waiting feels hard. Let’s think about what we can do while we wait.” The look of impatience mixed with growing acceptance on her face told me we had a perfect opportunity to practice waiting for something important in a low-stakes environment. ...

Last Thursday, we stood in a long line at the amusement park. My 8-year-old started fidgeting and complaining after just a few minutes. Instead of immediately finding distractions or complaining alongside her, I remembered our family’s commitment to the Life-Ready approach. I said, “Lines are a part of life. Let’s practice waiting patiently together.” The look of impatience mixed with growing acceptance on her face told me we had a perfect opportunity to practice patience in a low-stakes environment. ...