Sibling Rivalry

The relationship between siblings is a universe of contradictions. One moment, they are co-conspirators in a secret mission, sharing whispers and giggles. The next, they are locked in a fierce battle over a seemingly insignificant toy, with tears and accusations filling the air. For parents, navigating this emotional rollercoaster can be one of the most challenging aspects of family life. We celebrate their moments of connection and despair at their conflicts, often feeling helpless to influence the delicate balance between harmony and rivalry. ...

If you have more than one child, you are intimately familiar with the sound of sibling conflict. It is the background noise of many households. But what if that noise was more than just a daily annoyance? What if it was a predictor of your children’s future? Research has revealed a startling statistic: in early childhood, approximately 20% of all sibling interactions involve intense negative emotions. This rate is significantly higher than that observed in parent-child interactions during the same period. Sibling conflict is not just common; it is the most frequent and intense type of conflict that most children will experience. ...