Life-Ready Parenting

Last Thursday, my 7-year-old stood at the kitchen counter with the most pitiful expression I’d ever seen. “Please, Mom? Just one more cookie before dinner?” The look was heartbreaking—big eyes filled with hope, bottom lip quivering slightly. I had two choices: give in to avoid the disappointment, or say no. I chose no. “Not right now, sweetie. Dinner is in 20 minutes.” The tears began immediately. In that moment, I realized we had a perfect opportunity to practice handling rejection in a low-stakes environment. ...

Last Wednesday, my 6-year-old’s beloved stuffed elephant, Mr. Peanuts, met an unfortunate end. The arm seam had been slowly coming apart for weeks, and despite our best efforts to mend it, the stuffing scattered across the living room like cotton snow. My daughter’s wails echoed through the house as she clutched the now-limbless elephant. In that moment, I realized we had stumbled upon a crucial Life-Ready experience: learning to handle irreversible loss in a safe, supportive environment. ...

Last Tuesday, my 8-year-old burst into tears when his younger sister beat him at Candy Land. “This is SO unfair!” he wailed, sending game pieces flying across the floor. I knelt beside him and whispered, “Life-Ready Parenting means your child won’t face this for the first time at age 25—with rent due and no safety net.” In that moment, I realized we had a perfect opportunity to practice losing gracefully in a low-stakes environment. ...