Disappointment

Last Saturday, my 7-year-old’s birthday party was rained out. We’d planned everything—balloons, games, the whole works. When the sky opened up, he collapsed on the floor screaming. Instead of immediately fixing it or dismissing his feelings, I remembered our family’s commitment to the Life-Ready approach. I sat beside him and said, “I know this feels devastating. You worked so hard waiting for this day, and now it’s not happening the way you hoped.” The look of frustration mixed with growing calm on his face told me we had a perfect opportunity to practice handling disappointment in a low-stakes environment. ...

Last Monday, my 8-year-old was excited to buy her favorite cereal at the store. When we arrived, the shelf was empty. “They’re all gone!” she exclaimed, her face falling. Instead of immediately promising to find it elsewhere, I remembered our family’s commitment to the Life-Ready approach. I acknowledged her disappointment and asked, “How can we handle this?” The look of frustration mixed with growing acceptance on her face told me we had a perfect opportunity to practice handling disappointment in a low-stakes environment. ...