Chores

Picture this: It’s a frantic Tuesday morning. You’re juggling making breakfast, finding a missing shoe, and packing a lunch for a 12-year-old who is perfectly capable of doing it themselves but “forgot.” If this scene is uncomfortably familiar, you’re not alone in the great modern parenting paradox: we desperately want to raise independent children, yet we find ourselves acting as their personal concierge day after day. The fear is real. If we let go, will they survive on a diet of cereal and YouTube shorts? How do we know when to push and when to support? The answer isn’t found in guesswork or by comparing our kids to others. It’s in data and a clear-eyed understanding of child development. ...

In an increasingly cashless society, the humble piggy bank feels like a relic. How do we teach our children the value of a dollar when they rarely see physical money exchanged? The abstract nature of digital transactions, from tapping a card to in-app purchases, makes it harder than ever for kids to grasp fundamental financial concepts like earning, saving, and spending. The age-old parental dilemma of “how much allowance is fair?” has morphed into a more complex challenge. ...