Apologizing Sincerely After Hurting Someone: Teaching Children to Navigate Interpersonal Harm
Last Tuesday, my 6-year-old accidentally knocked over his sister’s carefully constructed block tower. The crash echoed through the living room, and his sister’s tears followed immediately. My son stood frozen, clearly realizing he had caused harm. “I’m sorry,” he mumbled quickly, but his sister continued crying. I knelt beside him and whispered, “Life-Ready Parenting means your child won’t face this for the first time at age 25—with rent due and no safety net.” In that moment, I realized we had a perfect opportunity to practice sincere apology in a low-stakes environment. ...