We Stopped Forcing "One Bite." Here's What Picky Eaters Actually Need.
For years, our family dinner table was a battlefield. “Just try one bite,” I’d plead, cajole, and sometimes demand. “You might like it,” I’d insist, even as my 4-year-old pushed the broccoli further from her plate. “Everyone takes one bite,” I’d declare with the authority of a benevolent dictator. The result? Tense meals, tears, power struggles, and a child who became increasingly resistant to trying anything new. Then I discovered something that revolutionized our family’s relationship with food: the “one bite” rule wasn’t helping our picky eater – it was making things worse. The data showed that coercion, pressure, and forced tasting created negative associations with food that extended far beyond the dinner table. What picky eaters actually need is understanding, patience, and evidence-based strategies that work with their natural tendencies rather than against them. ...